Gran wrote:Now all I have to do is figure a way to stand a 25 ft telephone pole up with out any heavy equipment

It was a fair amount of work, but I have done it, by myself. Basically what you do is dig the hole with a post hole digger, then dig a 45 degree slot running down to the bottom of the vertical hole. Lay a couple of 2x4's in the slot. Drag your pole to the top of the slot, and on top of the 2x4's. Place another pair of 2x4's against the opposite wall of the vertical hole, so the butt of the pole doesn't jam into the dirt on the side of the vertical hole. Now attach your come-a-long to the top of the pole and winch it upright. If you have at least three strong bodies, you may be able to do it without the come-a-long but this is pretty dangerous.
You will probably need to make an "x" out of two 2x6's to hold the pole in its partially upright position while you re-set the come-a-long after you winch it as far as you can. This is the most dangerous part and will reinforce how truly heavy these poles are. Just drill a hole through the 2x6 (2/3 from the end) and put a 3/8" or larger bolt through, and a washer and nut on the other side. Attach a piece of heavy metal strap about 1/3 of the way up the 2x6 to keep the bottom of the X from spreading and sending the pole crashing to the ground, killing you in the process.
Once it is upright, with the come-a-long still attached, remove the 2x4's from the 45 degree slot and begin refilling the slot. Once the pole is fairly stable you can remove the come a long and use it to pull the vertical 2x4's out of the vertical hole. Now get out your level and finish filling and packing the holes. I used the end of a 2x6 to pack the dirt as I filled.
As I said this is a fair amount of work but I couldn't think of any other way to do it by myself.